
Most relationships don’t fail because of lack of love – they fail because of lack of emotional maturity.
Break the pattern and build the kind of love that actually lasts.
How it works
Take the Test
Answer a few simple questions about your emotional responses and relationship habits.
Discover Your Stage
Understand how your stage of Heart Maturity™ shapes the way you attract, communicate, and connect in love.
Grow in Love
Evolve beyond old patterns and become the kind of partner who naturally attracts and sustains mature, wholehearted connection.
The Nine Stages of Heart Maturity
Each stage represents a step in your emotional evolution — from fear to freedom, from needing love to becoming love.
| Stage 1 – Surviving Love | Love as safety. |
| Stage 2 – Pleasing Love | Love as approval. |
| Stage 3 – Performing Love | Love as image. |
| Stage 4 – Projecting Love | Love as mirror. |
| Stage 5 – Awakening Love | Love as awareness. |
| Stage 6 – Conscious Love | Love as truth. |
| Stage 7 – Sovereign Love | Love as integrity. |
| Stage 8 – Devotional Love | Love as surrender. |
| Stage 9 – Transcendent Love | Love as unity. |
Why it matters
Understand yourself. Understand love.
Emotional maturity is the foundation of every healthy relationship.
When you know your Spiral of Love™ stage, you begin to:
Recognize repeating emotional patterns
Communicate with more honesty and empathy
Create relationships based on truth, not trauma