Sample Quiz
Welcome to your The Maturity Test
In love, I often feel…
Terrified of being abandoned or forgotten
Afraid I’m not good enough to be loved
Safer when I stay in control or perform
Willing to risk vulnerability for connection
Stronger when I speak my truth clearly
Moved by intuition and shared spiritual values
At peace – I know love doesn’t leave
None
My nervous system in relationships feels…
Always on high alert, scanning for danger
Like I’m walking on eggshells to keep the peace
Tense, like I’m managing outcomes or roles
Open, with occasional emotional turbulence
Stable, expressed, and clear
Fluid, expanded – I trust the flow
Calm, unshakeable, whole
None
When I’m triggered, I usually…
Shut down, cry, or panic
Try harder to please or fix things
Detach, analyze, or get bossy
Feel, breathe, and then speak
Communicate directly, even if it’s uncomfortable
Reflect symbolically – what is this showing me?
Remain present – no reaction needed
None
I tend to choose partners who…
Feel like emotional lifelines
Need me to caretake or rescue them
Respect me but avoid deep feelings
Match my emotional growth
Honor my voice and sovereignty
Reflect my soul, like a sacred mirror
Feel like timeless companions in stillness
None
My ideal partner is someone who…
Makes me feel safe and never leaves
Always reassures me and wants me
Is successful, independent, and focused
Shares emotions and wants to grow
Speaks truth and honours freedom
Sees the divine in me
Is no one and everyone – I am my beloved
None
I feel most unlovable when…
I’m needy or afraid
I make a mistake or express too much
I’m vulnerable or uncertain
I can’t hold space for others
I feel misunderstood
My intuition is dismissed
I forget my connection to my source
None
In sexual intimacy, I often…
Crave closeness but fear abandonment
Perform or over-give to feel wanted
Stay in control or hide my heart
Let love flow and meet in tenderness
Express desires clearly, with reverence
Merge souls and explore beyond the body
Dissolve identity – become pure presence
None
Time’s up
